I remember when I was a young girl my fathers, both biological and step father, repeatedly would say, "You deserve the world!" I wish I had the mentality of an older woman that way I would be able to return with a question, "Would it be all the good? or the bad?" Something of that Nature.
A lot of women, including myself, probably never thought about what they deserve. For obvious reasons, KARMA has her own doings. Although the things, normally the bad experiences, we blame KARMA, or reference it. But as I sit and think about what I really deserve, there are various aspects that I come across. For example, what I deserve in my: everyday life, love, children, parenting, and overall.
My worth: worth more than words. Although we as women settle for less. Which now comes to what I deserve..
Deserve: more than I accept. Now why is that?
Why do we as women accept whatever comes our way? We are naturally accepting of things, damn us! Ultimately, in the end we are the ones who suffer. Do we not love ourselves enough to say, "Fuck that, if you think I'm going to settle for less!"
I sometimes see myself settling for less, and then I'm reminded by the outcome. Damn I did it again, why did I let that happen?
What do I deserve? It comes back down to what I think I deserve...... The world! Mostly good and some bad. now why some of the bad you ask? To keep focused on the good and accepting more of the good.....
I deserve: respect, loyalty, consistency, LOVE, compliments, acknowledgement, acceptance, abundance.......
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And please don't forget happiness. We as women tend to forgive a little bit better than men and be more understanding. I feel like this I have been through sooo much with Jerry but I hope and pray that he acts right this time for his sake. Because I am at the point where my happiness come first and if you don't know how to keep that smile on my face then dude u gotta go. I use to have a zero tolerence to cheating and treating me bad. Anyone of my friends can tell you this you never had a second chance with me. So I consider Jerry lucky. I stay because I love him and I want it to work but the next time he slip up I know it won't. You have to look out for you and in your case you had caught him red handed but wanted to ignore the signs which is understandable when you love someone. But never ignore them. when you have a question, tell them right away. I feel like we put 90 percent sometimes just to recieve 10. It sucks, but move on you are young. Trust me I just told jerry this. I said I'm to young to be dealing with the BS you take me through so next time it won't be no I'm sorry.. It will be "Take A Bow"..Like I said I'm here if you need to talk. Love ya
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