Let me start off saying, "I want more than anything for my own happiness." But at what cost? I've came across quite a few different women, of different ethnic backgrounds, but many of them have different morals than me. I've be in this wierd kind of relationship with my daughters father. He's asked me several times to, pretty much, give up whatever relationship's that I have other than him, to be with him. I will put this out there, I have a boyfriend now who is good to me. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. Ok, now back to a brief history of my daughters' father and I. I began a relationship with him when I turned 15 years old. I thought he was the best thing I've had, but I was a baby. I'd hadn't experenced life yet, so what did I know. I did everything I'd knew for him, I never wanted to leave him. I thought I loved him so much. We had so many different problems, that you would've thought that I would leave him, I didn't. He cheated on me, I believe quite a few times, only two that I know of.
So now, he's been telling me so many different things about, "Baby, I love you with all my heart," and all those different types of Nigga lyrics. I know, I know, yes I said Nigga lyrics. SO knowing how long I've been with him, you can understand why I really am not feeling the bullshit he is trying to write in my story book. His family loves me to death, but what I'm noticing now is that they are looking out for his best interest and not mine.
His mother called upon me to discuss our (her father and I) child support problem, as she says it. See he's not working so I'm the one doing everything, to say the least he comes and goes whenever he feels like it, which I pretty much have control of now. I'm a single mother, in my eyes, I have been since day one. She wants me to sign a contract with her son indicating that I would dismiss his non-working ass, and wait until he gets a job to resume child support. Oh I broke it down for her the most easiest I could. No, she didn't like what I said, but hey I'm in it for mine and she's in it for hers. What I was thinking in my head was "WTF?!?!" The stuff that came out of her mouth is so indescribable. The last thing she said to me was, "I think you guys should get married already."
Married??? OH HELL NAW! You must be sick lady. Does she not know that if her son can't be a man on his own, he most definitely won't withhold that title being with me. What doesn't she get? His family is sweet when they want to be, but my happiness isn't worth making the rest of my life miserable.
About Me
- Jenn
- I'm a pretty outgoing person. Living life as a single mother, I don't always see the end of the rainbow but do come close to it. Working full time with a company that treats you like family, sometimes arguing, laughing and talking things through. They are understanding, and that's what I love about it. My friend Miss Angel, loves to write, she has opened me up to expressing myself more than I have. This is a somewhat new experience for me. I pretty much speak my mind way more than write, which in the end I know I won't remember anything :). I plan on allowing any reader who comes across me to experience what's on my mind and the things that I'm going through.. Opinions are very much accepted. Love, always.
2 comments:
Wow I say she has some nerve. What she need to do is let her be a man and grow up.Why couldnt he call you himself and ask you. Why hide behind mom and make her do the dirty work. I say it like this you made the baby now take care of her. Even if you did sign that Jenn the courts will throw it out for the simple fact you can not stop child support. All he has to is get a job. What the courts will tell you is all in all you chose to stop it he cant because it's his responsibility. the one thing courts dont have sympathy for is a man who dont take care of his kids. Your happy who your with so be happy. You can't make a boy be a Man he has to become one himself. Now in my situation Jerry was taking care of his kid. Thats when you don't take them to court and she did and she's getting less now her feelings are hurt. He and his mother are looking out for themselves. Just as well as you would for your child. Any mother would. Its maternal instinct. I hope this helps doll..Kisses
Growing is apart of life...
Angel
See, even if it was him asking me, HELL NAW! We've been through this garbage before. But you already know that I will NOT sign anything with him if my life depended on it! I wish he would grow up already. I thought she was pretty funny for asking me, although it pissed me off at first. Contain yourself, is all I kept saying to myself.
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